How To Pick Up Women The Right Way

Many a guy has been at a nightclub, seen a hot girl and thought, “Wow! She really works those boobies, bouncy bouncy.”

Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.

He scurried off with the imperative of a gazelle that knows it’s minutes away from becoming a lion’s dinner.

Maybe you’ve had a similar experience? I’ve had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words “I’m the world’s biggest loser” push pinned to my forehead.

If you don’t know how to pick up women, then doing so will be more difficult than a blind man trying to find a needle in a haystack.

Most of the time, guys pick up girls for their beauty alone – and girls know this, my friend.

Half the time, even if you find them as attractive as a dingle berry , they’ll still think you’re interested.

This, of course, is about to change. So keep reading…

Seeing most men pick up a woman is more embarrassing than stooling oneself in public. Think of the woman as a pro fisherman with tasty bait and the man as an unlucky fish who’s minutes away from being flayed, sauteed, and eaten for dinner.

Even if he puts up a fight, it’s game over – she already hooked him (although, if she’s physically attracted to him, there’s a glimmer of hope).

But unbeknownst to them, I’m not the passive, dumb trout they’re used to catching. I’m a great white shark ready for battle. The second they sense they’ve hooked me in, I taunt them with my own tantalizing bait.

They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in – they’re trapped.

Let’s look at an example. When at a bar, I’ll stand in a high-traffic area – e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I’ll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.

And then in an overdramatic and offended tone I’ll utter: “Ow…you hurt me.”

Almost always , the woman will put her paw on my shoulder and say, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”

I’ll quip back with, “Before you can touch me, you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.

This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.

For most men, when a piece of T&A origami fills their groin with lust, their mind starts thinking of ways to win her over.

She’s got them on her emotional hook (and she’s well aware of it.) Any effort on their part to win her over is a bad sign she’s reeled them in even closer.

In the example I gave you, I did the opposite: Instead of trying to impress her, I made her prove herself to me.

Here’s a universal truth about dating and attraction: In every male-female interaction, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.

You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.

Josh Lubens, a world renowned relationship expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over a decade. On his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.

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